Wednesday, August 12, 2009

AL Surprises

I don't feel like Thomas and I have been married long enough to warrant 10 surprises, but here are a few from the first 3 weeks of marriage:

1.  I thought it would take months to get used to everything, but being married to Thomas already feels like normal life...and a wonderful life it is!  The house feels like home, and I'm starting to feel like I belong in this city and at FW Pres.  I'm not used to the name change, though.  A teenager at FWPCA came up to me and said, "Are you Mrs. Warmath?" and I almost said "nope."

2.  I didn't expect to miss him as much as I do when he's at seminary.  I start watching the clock around 3:00 even though I know he won't be home until 5 or 6.  This is very motivating in my job hunt (as is the awesome lunch box Michelle bought me.)

3.  Various women in my life led me to believe that serving a husband around the house was like doing favors for a black hole of gratitude.  To the contrary, Thomas is wonderful about noticing what cleaning, laundry, etc. I have done.  The other day he got home, went to go change, and came bounding out of the bedroom saying "The vacuum stripes look awesome in there!"

4.  I make a lot of small trips to Central Market.  As the future wife of T.W. I should have anticipated this.

5.  I'm emotionally attached to the kitchen/cooking.  I hated cooking in college so this is a very big surprise.  When stuff turns out better than expected I get really excited about it.  On the flip side, if it is worse than expected it makes me really sad.  I also get a big sense of satisfaction when I turn out the light at night to a very clean kitchen.  Having lots of nice, new stuff that just belongs to us (not lots of other roommates) also makes it fun.  I have about 6 aprons and like to alternate them throughout the week.

6.  I enjoy sleeping next to someone even more than I thought I would.  I knew I was a big cuddler, but I'm beginning to wonder how I ever fell asleep before I was married.

That's all I've got.  Maybe Thomas will come up with some. 

1 comment:

  1. Amy's new nickname: Carpet Stripes. Let's make this catch on.

    ReplyDelete